Giving up

Giving

My parents went without a lot to fund me and my sisters existence. I am sure that is the case in many families. Do we appreciate it? Or is it a pass it on thing? Do we simply do the same for the next generation. When I think about being appreciative, I am glad they paused before taking the first doctor’s counsel. They looked at alternatives to a stomach operation which proved to be unnecessary.

If we expect nothing back from our children, we won’t be disappointed. Those given a lot may expect more and have the confidence to apply for a highly paid job. The belief that they can aim high can come from our parents or be irrespective of them. If you can afford the amount you give, and you are not depriving yourself of the things you and your partner deserve, then why worry. Parenting can be a minefield with many things to dodge and attempt to get right. There are always advantages and disadvantages to any priority you make. Ultimately, a child needs to learn to become independent. If you manage that you are a successful parent.