To be true to oneself, one must...

...ignore a lot of what others tell you to do.

"You don't want to do it like that, you want to do it like this."

She said you should take the red route, but does that suit you?

The red route goes through the city. It is the shortest. It saves you fuel.

However, the blue route is easy and is usually the quickest.

You may prefer the green country route despite the extra time and cost.

How about deciding for yourself?

People like telling us what to do.

This book tries not to tell you what to do. It lays out possibilities allowing you to decide. Encouraging you to be true to yourself.